It takes less work to bless than to curse

I want you to think about the way that temperatures fluctuate.  For the our purposes, lets just have the common thought that cold is simply the absence of heat.  No, this is not a science lesson.  I have a point that might change the way that you look at how you interact with people.
When you place a glass of cold water next to a heat source, what happens?  Water gets warmer right?  If you place a glass of hot water next to the same glass of cold water, the cold water gets warmer as well.
Heat transfer is the basic principle that helps cool and heat our homes.  Lets also all agree on the fact that God set every law of physics (the way our physical world works) into motion and they cannot be changed.
So you have a fan inside your house to collect the heat and a fan outside to release it into the air.  Remember: 2 FANS.  In the winter time you need to heat your home.  Most homes have a coil of a certain type of metal that heats up when electricity is applied to it.  One fan is turned on and blows the heat around the room through the various vents.  ONE FAN!

Yep you guessed it.  Heat is blessing and cold is cursing.  The curse is nothing more than the absence of the blessing.  Just like heat and cold.  If you completely take away all blessing (heat) you reach absolute zero at which no blessing is present.  All life ceases to exist.

Given that, you could use all your energy to talk down to people, tell them how they cannot do what they are trying to do, or you could use half the effort and build them up.  Encourage them to press forward towards their goal. You think that Paul didn't need encouraging all the time?  He was beaten, thrown in prison, laughed at, mocked, nearly stoned to death, persecuted and kicked out of entire regions.  You don't have to be a bible scholar to know that it gets tough sometimes to keep spreading Love when all you encounter is hate!  From the cost of everything, you already know that energy is precious enough in our society, don't waste it.  Use your energy more efficiently to promote happiness and righteousness.
Grace and Peace of God to you ALL!!!